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	<description>Leading &#38; living an intentional, inspired life.</description>
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		<title>What does it take to be a moral leader?</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2012/04/moral-leader/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 11:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can you imagine being part of a community that experienced a shocking tragedy? Can you fathom the emotions you would feel knowing that one person was the perpetrator of the events? Now, can you see yourself including this person in a memorial to the victims of the violence? Back in the spring of 2007,  one [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Multitasking is a mistake</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 09:24:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;We can do fifty things at once and &#8216;save time,&#8217; but is multitasking mania really an effective long-term survival response? As I stand in my kitchen in the midst of chaos, can I hear the fear in my mother&#8217;s voice when she expresses concerns about paying for her heating bill? Can I read my client&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Being of service</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2012/02/being-of-service/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For most women, serving is a natural tendency and something that gives us pleasure and adds meaning to our lives. What many of us learned however, is sacrifice, not true service. Half a century after the June Cleaver model was popular, girls are still frequently getting a message that says females should give to others [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Expect more</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2012/02/expect-more/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 08:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Empowerment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not normally a fan of expectations. I believe they generally get in the way of us loving ourselves, loving others, and enjoying life. They chain us to results that &#8220;must&#8221; be accomplished lest we lose our sense of worth, power, or &#8220;rightness.&#8221; Here are a few examples. Personal expectations: &#8220;I should weigh less, have [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is love or fear making your decisions?</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2012/01/decide-via-love-or-fear/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 12:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Fear, by design, elicits quick, automatic reactions. We don’t truly think about our action, we just do it. In my experience this is also true for other fear-related emotions: anger, jealousy, envy, hatred, resentment. Here’s an example. If one of our ancient ancestors was caught unarmed and unaware by a large feline predator, she needed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Soul-soothing spaces</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2012/01/soul-soothing-spaces/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 19:56:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.shonnielavender.com/?p=272</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;When we regain our spirituality, we will again learn to laugh from our hearts and play because “those who know how to play can easily leap over the adversaries of life. And one who knows how to sing and laugh never brews mischief.” ~ Angayuqaq Oscar Kawagley with quote from an Iglulik Proverb In “How [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Five investments with great returns</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2011/12/investments-with-great-returns/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 14:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Empowerment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you don’t know anything about stocks, bonds, T-bills, or IRAs, don’t worry. You don’t have to be financially savvy to make great investments. While the investment ideas below may not get you an early retirement, I’m confident that they’ll make your life richer and more enjoyable right now. If you’re not already investing in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ring in love this holiday season (or anytime)</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2011/12/ring-in-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 09:16:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Below are six ways for you to cultivate love. You don’t have to hoard them for holiday use. They’re great for everyday wear and share. Some focus more on giving love, some more on receiving love. Regardless, they are simple techniques that you can use to create an atmosphere where love flows freely and abundantly. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Get grateful</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2011/12/get-grateful/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 16:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Service]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.shonnielavender.com/?p=193</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In one of the workshops I lead, we have an exercise where each person lists the blessings in their life. When they finish writing, I ask them to sit quietly, reflecting on their fortune. It is a powerful experience that they really enjoy. Below I offer several practices you can do on your own (or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Bye bye busyness</title>
		<link>http://www.shonnielavender.com/blog/2011/09/bye-bye-busyness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2011 17:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shonnie</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Empowerment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Freedom]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.shonnielavender.com/?p=186</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Busyness is a common ailment today. In modern life, many people experience it as a nearly chronic condition. It is my observation that this busyness in turn contributes to a number of other dis-eases, such as stress, lack of self-awareness, disconnection from what is personally meaningful, less than optimal relationships, poor physical health, and more. [...]]]></description>
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